What segment of the male population do feminists want to be equal to?

It's true that certain men view ually men in different ways. But the problem women are faced with is that most men view ually active women in the same way. Going with your example, the Christian youth group and the frat boys would generally both consider a woman who gets around a slut. It's not about what segment of the male population we want to be equal to, because as you said, men are all different, and likewise, so are women. We simply want our gender not to be a factor in the evaluation of our character.